Month: March 2024

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Journaling Living

The Fading Tapestry of Memories

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I recently came across a tweet from someone visiting San Francisco:

I asked a billionaire what his biggest regret was: His response was short and sweet: “I wish I wrote more down”. You’ll never remember all the ups and downs. Write it down. Got me thinking – you’ll appreciate it in 5 years. Even more in 25.

A billionaire’s life – indeed all of our lives – is a tapestry woven with threads of triumph, adversity, and everything in between. Each strand tells a story, captures a moment, and etches itself into the fabric of our existence. Yet, as time marches on, the vibrant hues of these close at hand experiences can fade, and the intricate patterns become harder to discern.

The billionaire’s simple yet profound regret, “I wish I wrote more down,” resonates deeply with me. It echoes the timeless lament of those who have witnessed life’s grand spectacle unfold before their eyes, only to find that the vivid details have slipped through the cracks of our memory’s imperfect grasp.

In the whirlwind of success, ambition, and the constant motion everyday life, it’s all too easy to let the precious moments slip away, unrecorded and unpreserved. The exhilarating highs, the gut-wrenching lows, and the countless nuances that paint the canvas of our lives can blur together, until they become mere whispers in the wind.

Writing, that humble act of putting pen to paper, becomes a lifeline to the past, a tether that anchors us to the richness of our experiences. Each word, each sentence, is a breadcrumb trail leading back to the tapestry’s beginnings, allowing us to retrace our steps and relive the triumphs, the heartbreaks, and the lessons that shaped our journey.

As the years pass, the value of those written accounts only grows. Five years from now, they may serve as gentle reminders of the paths we’ve trodden. Twenty-five years hence, they could become priceless treasures, unveiling the intricate patterns that wove together the fabric of our existence, patterns that might have otherwise been lost to the sands of time.

The billionaire’s regret is a poignant reminder that wealth and success, however grand, cannot preserve the essence of our lived experiences. It is the written word, the humble chronicling of our triumphs and struggles, that holds the power to immortalize the tapestry of our lives, ensuring that the rich hues of memory never fade into oblivion.

And, sometimes, it just might be the photograph that matters most – beyond the written word. That smart phone is our pocket just might be the best capture device we’ve ever had – even better than pen and paper. Snapping a quick photo to capture a memory can make a big impact on us later – and might be something we’re even more willing than our writing to share with other important people in our lives.

That smart phone might also become your “pen” as voice dictation has gotten so powerful and useful for quickly capturing our thoughts on the go. A tap on the smart watch begins a recording. We send that through an AI translator who makes it into words. And we’re almost done. No more excuses – we can weave our tapestry of live very easily!

Update: I received a comment from a reader worth responding to: The pertinent question could be how do you know what needs to be written down? The hindsight makes you see an illusory landscape of missed opportunities, however it’s hard to see that landscape as it’s being formed.

Response (with the help of Claude 3):

You raise an excellent point – in the midst of living our lives, it can be challenging to discern which moments truly deserve to be chronicled. The tapestry is being woven in real-time, and it’s not always evident which threads will form the most intricate and meaningful patterns until we gain the perspective of hindsight.

While it’s true that we cannot capture every fleeting detail, there are certain experiences that tend to stand out as pivotal or transformative, even as they unfold. Major life events, such as career milestones, personal triumphs, or significant relationships, often carry an inherent weight that signals their importance in the grand tapestry.

Beyond these obvious markers, it’s the small, seemingly insignificant moments that can become the most treasured threads in retrospect. A shared laugh with a loved one, a chance encounter that altered our perspective, or a quiet moment of personal revelation – these are the subtle nuances that imbue our tapestry with depth and richness.

Perhaps the key lies in cultivating a heightened awareness and appreciation for the present moment. By making a conscious effort to pause and savor the experiences that resonate deeply within us, we increase our chances of recognizing the threads worth preserving.

Ultimately, the act of writing itself can serve as a filter, helping us sift through the vast expanse of our lives and extract the moments that truly matter. As we put pen to paper, the inherent significance of certain experiences becomes more apparent, guiding us towards capturing the essence of our tapestry before the colors fade.

While the landscape of missed opportunities may seem illusory in hindsight, the simple act of documenting our journey can help mitigate those regrets, ensuring that the vibrant hues of our lived experiences remain etched in the annals of our personal histories, forever vivid and everlasting.

In other words, the most important takeaway is cultivating a heightened awareness and appreciation for the present moment can help us recognize the experiences and moments worth documenting and preserving as we live our lives. By being mindful and savoring the experiences that resonate deeply with us as they happen, we increase our chances of identifying the meaningful threads that should be woven into the tapestry of our memories through writing and documentation. This present-moment awareness allows us to extract the most significant parts of our journey before the vibrancy of those moments potentially fades with time.

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Creativity Writing

The Faucet of Creativity

“Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on.”

– Louis L’Amour

This quotation from renowned author Louis L’Amour gets at one of the fundamental truths about the writing process – you can’t produce anything until you actually start writing. The blank page or cursor blinking on the screen can feel intimidating, even paralyzing at times. But L’Amour’s metaphor reminds us that words won’t magically appear until we muster the courage to turn on the faucet and let them flow.

Few pieces of advice are more important than this simple reminder to begin. Launch into that first sentence, that first paragraph, without judging whether it’s perfect or polished. Overthinking and editing prematurely are among the surest ways to stifle creativity before it ever emerges. No matter how talented writers are, their genius remains dammed up unless they release it through the act of writing itself.

The good news is that writing begets more writing. Once you turn on the faucet and let those initial words and ideas trickle out, they help erode the dam of hesitation and doubt. Momentum builds. The trickle becomes a stream and then a forceful current carrying you to insights, descriptions, and creative formulations you couldn’t possibly have conceived until you began writing.

That’s because the very process of writing seems to unlock portals in our minds. The simple act of articulating partial thoughts on the page sparks neurons to fire in new patterns, illuminating connections and opening new cognitive pathways. While staring at a blank page, our brains may feel stuck in rigid philosophical grooves. But acting on L’Amour’s advice and beginning to write, no matter how clumsily or inchoately, dislodges our thinking from its ruts.

By writing, we inadvertently begin a mystical and profoundly human process of turning the lead of our murky semi-thoughts into the gold of lucid, coherent ideas and arguments. But this alchemical magic can only be triggered once we turn on the faucet and accept whatever initially pours forth, no matter how unrefined and unlovely it may appear.

Of course, once the raw material has been expressed, then the real craft of writing takes over as we revise, rearrange, edit, and refine. But that crucial first step cannot be skipped or procrastinated any longer. As L’Amour knew, nothing can flow if the faucet stays off. As Picasso allegedly quipped, “Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working.” Without the courage to put words on paper and let creative juices drip, writers will find that even the muses cannot help them.

The metaphor also reminds us that once we do turn on the creative faucet, we often cannot fully control the rate or nature of the flow. Sometimes it pours too quickly, with a torrent of ideas gushing in a scattered frenzy. Other times, it dribbles out maddeningly slowly. The water may run murky for a while before it clears. Creative flow frequently alternates between droughts and floods in ways beyond our control.

But the important thing is to trust that the faucet works if we only switch it on. The water will ultimately flow, even if it takes time to find its steady, crystal-clear stream. As long as we don’t shut off the faucet prematurely out of impatience or self-doubt, the channel of imagination remains open and unblocked.

So to all the writers reading this who stare despondently at blank screens and feel creatively frustrated, heed L’Amour’s simple wisdom: Just start writing, with the faith that the faucet works even when it doesn’t seem to. Don’t judge or fret over the initial quality, just turn it on and let it run until it flows freely. Give utterance to the tangled threads of your thoughts and watch in awe as the very act of writing begins to unsnarl and weave them into glorious tapestries.

For those special times when true inspiration does strike like a lightning bolt and ideas pour forth in an unstoppable gush, then you can cry joyful thanks that the faucet was turned on and unobstructed. But for most of the ordinary writing days, you simply have to show up and turn on the flow through plain old self-discipline, grit and persistence. See what wonders and marvels flow when you finally give the waters of your art a path to travel. L’Amour assures that they will indeed flow, if only we have the bravery to turn the tap and let them go.

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Productivity

Give Your Time a Job: The Power of Time Blocking

On my morning walk I was listening to a recent podcast interview with Cal Newport in which host Andrew Huberman asked him: “Do you wake up in the morning and make lists, decide what are the key items on that list, then cross things off, etc.?”

Newport’s response was revealing: “No, I’m a time blocker. I’m not a big believer in to-do lists. I like to grapple with the actual time available.”

Newport explained that he’s been a proponent of this approach since his undergraduate days. He describes it as “giving your time a job” as opposed to having a list that is somewhat disconnected from the realities of your day. Here’s an article describing his technique.

While most of us rely on to-do lists to keep track of tasks, the magic of Newport’s time blocking approach is taking a few minutes each morning (or the previous evening) to schedule specific time blocks for your priorities. By allocating dedicated periods for important work, you’re more likely to stay focused and resist distractions.

Newport has formalized this concept in his workbook “The Time-Block Planner,” which he subtitles “A Daily Method for Deep Work in a Distracted World.” The benefits, he notes, are that “you can more easily protect hours for deep work, while batching shallow tasks into efficient sprints. The clarity of these blocks also encourages you to focus intensely on one thing at a time, resisting the distracting allure of inboxes, social media, and idle web surfing.”

One of things Newport also talks about with Huberman is a visual benefit from his paper-based approach to time-blocking. When he’s blocked time for one of his “deep work” sessions, he’ll make the box darker/thicker such that at a glance he can look back and see just how much deep work he’s been doing in the recent past. He likes that feedback aspect.

David Sparks, in his recently published “Productivity Field Guide,” also advocates this approach, referring to it as “hyper-scheduling.” He writes, “Scheduling time for important work is one of the easiest, most effective productivity techniques I have ever used. So long as you respect the calendar, it always works.” In a blog post, Jim Eager describes how he’s applying this approach to his daily planning.

Sparks notes that a schedule doesn’t have to be rigid. For him, the only truly locked-in events are appointments with others. Otherwise, time blocks can be adjusted as needed throughout the day.

He also shares a technique for overcoming resistance when it’s time to work on a scheduled task. He employs a “five-minute trick,” telling himself, “First, I’m going to give this just five minutes.” Sparks finds that “nine out of ten times, that five minutes turns into an hour or more.” This reminds me of a quote from author Louis L’Amour:

“Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on.”

– Louis L’Amour

So, if you’re a list maker, consider taking the additional step of creating a daily time-blocked schedule to translate your to-do list into a focused action plan. Doing so will not only help you prioritize but also allow you to allocate tasks based on your energy levels and productivity rhythms throughout the day.

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iPhone 15 Pro Max Productivity

Using the Action Button on the iPhone 15 Pro Max

Action Button menu for iPhone 15 Pro Max
Action Button menu for iPhone 15 Pro Max

I’ve recently spent some time customizing the Action Button on my iPhone 15 Pro Max to quickly perform actions and invoke shortcuts. This hardware button was a new addition to the iPhone 15 Pro models, allowing you to invoke an action or shortcut with one long tap.

With iOS 17, you can now create a folder of shortcuts that displays as a menu when invoking the Action Button. This is how I’ve settled on using it – a single-purpose shortcut didn’t work for me, but being able to select from eight different actions I’ve set up works quite well.

The setup process is straightforward. In the Shortcuts app, create a new folder (I named mine “Action Button”). Save up to eight shortcuts you might want to invoke into that folder. Then, in Settings, configure the Action Button to show that folder of shortcuts. That’s all there is to it. When you tap the Action Button, a menu of eight shortcuts will pop up, and you can quickly make a selection.

Here are the shortcuts in my Action Button folder:

  • Focus Off – turns off any active Focus mode
  • Reading Focus – turns on my Reading Focus mode
  • Choose Focus – allows me to choose from a menu of Focus modes to enable
  • 20 min Nap Time – sets a 20-minute nap timer
  • Scan Document – opens the Camera app to scan a document and save it as a PDF
  • Perplexity Search – performs a Perplexity web search
  • Today’s Reminders – shows my Reminders for today
  • Log Weight – allows me to quickly log my weight each morning in the Health app

After months of ignoring it, the Action Button has become a useful and frequently utilized tool. I’ve enjoyed customizing it with a set of handy shortcuts.

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AI AI: Large Language Models ChatGPT Memories

Partners Have Memories

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During a recent episode of The Kindle Chronicles podcast, host Len Edgerly shared insights from his interview with Peter Deng, OpenAI’s head of ChatGPT, at South by Southwest. While discussing personal uses of ChatGPT, Deng noted that the AI system could function not just as an assistant but as a partner.

Edgerly pointed out the subtle yet significant difference between these two roles. Viewing ChatGPT as an assistant implies a more transactional relationship where it simply executes given tasks. In contrast, a partner suggests a deeper, more collaborative dynamic where the AI contributes creatively, generating ideas and working alongside the human to explore topics, solve problems, and create content.

As Deng explained, “Thinking of me as a partner implies a more dynamic interaction. It suggests that I can offer insights, generate ideas and work alongside you to explore topics, solve problems, and create content. This partnership approach leverages my capabilities for understanding and generating language to collaborate with you in a more involved and creative way.”

This perspective resonated with me. One key difference between an assistant and a partner is the presence of an ongoing memory. An assistant seems transient, coming and going for each new task, while a partner accumulates knowledge through sustained interactions over time.

As investors like Bill Gurley have noted, memory capabilities could unlock tremendous potential for AI assistants to become truly personalized partners, supporting us more effectively across a wide range of activities. The ability for AI to draw upon a rich context of our shared experiences, preferences, and goals would facilitate deeper collaboration.

The evolution from assistant to creative partner with AI is an exciting frontier. As these systems gain more robust memory and context tracking, we can engage in fertile partnerships where the human and AI work in synergy, exploring ideas and augmenting each other’s creativity. I look forward to participating in and witnessing this profound transformation in how we interact with technology.

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Link-based note-making Linking Your Thinking Obsidian Personal Knowledge PKM Personal Knowledge Management

Forgotten Gems: Mining Your Second Brain

“One of the best uses for a Second Brain is to collect and save the scraps on the cutting-room floor in case they can be used elsewhere.” – Tiago Forte

Ever had a fleeting idea that later becomes a game-changer? Nick Milo’s Linking Your Thinking (LYT) workshop equips writers, students, and creative professionals with a powerful framework for capturing, developing, and ultimately communicating their ideas.

A core concept in LYT is the Ideaverse, a personal repository for all your captured ideas, thoughts, and insights. Whether it’s a scribbled note, a website URL, or an overheard conversation, the Ideaverse encourages you to collect these sparks of inspiration. Tiago Forte uses the term “Second Brain” for the same idea as the Ideaverse. Forte has taught a similar workshop for years and has also published a book on the subject.

The LYT framework, built on the Add-Relate-Communicate (ARC) approach, guides you through the process of nurturing those sparks. Adding involves capturing the initial idea in any format that works for you. Relating encourages you to explore connections, ask questions, and build upon the original idea. Finally, Communicating involves sharing your developed thought through writing, presentations, or simply internalizing it for future use. (Note: I have been using Obsidian as my tool of choice for my personal Ideaverse. I’ve found it second to no other applications when it comes to linking ideas and notes together, helping me to discover new insights in often surprising ways.)

The key lies in maintaining a balance. LYT helps you avoid the trap of over-collecting ideas. By establishing criteria for capture and prioritizing based on potential impact, you can focus your energy on the ideas most likely to bear fruit. How often have you had a brilliant idea or stumbled across an interesting tidbit, only for it to slip away into the ether, forgotten and lost? Our minds are fertile gardens, constantly sprouting seeds of inspiration and insight. But without a system to capture and cultivate those seeds, so many wither on the vine before they can fully blossom.

By cultivating a robust personal knowledge management system, we create a repository to gather up all those little scraps – the half-formed thoughts, the kernels of concepts, the raw materials of creativity. Much like a compost bin nourishes a garden, our Ideaverse provides a rich bed of inspiration where our intellectual and artistic seeds can germinate and grow.

What makes this approach so powerful is the emphasis on saving “the scraps on the cutting-room floor.” We’re all familiar with those fleeting moments of genius – the clever turn of phrase that comes to mind in the shower, the spontaneous creative spark while commuting, the “Aha!” revelation in the weekly meeting that peters out before we can fully explore it. Our Ideaverse becomes the catcher’s mitt for those vagabond thoughts, preventing them from drifting off into the ether of distraction.

And those scraps, when collected and cross-pollinated as we relate to them, have extraordinary emergent potential. A stray joke becomes the seed for a new creative project. An intriguing book quote plants the roots for an original philosophy. An overheard conversation germinates into a novel perspective to share with the world. Our Ideaverse is both archive and icebox, preserving the perishable flashes of brilliance to be leveraged and recombined in novel ways.

The creative process is so often portrayed as one of passionate inspiration and Eureka moments. But any prolific artist or thinker will tell you that their masterworks are built from a million little scraps – the unfinished thoughts, the faint impressions, the whispers of ideas that gradually coalesce into a cohesive whole. By giving those fleeting intellections a dedicated space to live and mingle, our Ideaverse transforms from a mere repository into a fertile idea nursery.

So embrace the scraps, the snippets, the clippings and fragments. Let your Ideaverse or your Second Brain be the garden bed where those discarded trimmings are collected and composted into the rich soil for your creative progeny to take root and thrive. Don’t leave those forgotten gems scattered on the cutting-room floor when they could be the seeds of your next breakthrough.

Note: see also my earlier post from last summer that I wrote after attending my first cohort of the Linking Your Thinking workshop.

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Inversion Productivity

Inverting Routines: A Fresh Perspective

“All I want to know is where I’m going to die, so I’ll never go there.” This infamous quote from the late Charlie Munger encapsulates the concept of inversion – a problem-solving technique that urges us to flip our perspective. Munger was inspired by the German mathematician Carl Gustav Jacob Jacobi, who famously said, “invert, always invert.”

As the team at Farnam Street explains, “It is not enough to think about difficult problems one way. You need to think about them forwards and backward. Inversion often forces you to uncover hidden beliefs about the problem you are trying to solve.”

Recently, I stumbled upon an excellent article in the Financial Times by Markham Heid titled “The life-ruining power of routines.” The subtitle alone piqued my interest: “Habits don’t lead to personal optimization. They lead to suffering.” Heid’s words resonated deeply, as many of us seem increasingly trapped in the grind of daily routines, sacrificing spontaneity and joy for the illusion of productivity.

It’s been drilled into us that there are is an allure to the notion of personal optimization, meticulously tweaking our processes in pursuit of a “superior life product.” But as Heid poignantly notes, “I don’t think I have the wrong habits; I think I have too many of them. And they are suffocating me.”

In search of a remedy, Heid discovered the writings of Joseph Mortimer-Granville, an English physician from the 19th century. Mortimer-Granville’s advice struck a chord: “To restore a flagging mind (or spirit), he wrote, a person must shift from ‘aimless automatic routine to activity with a purpose and an end’.”

He continued his exploration of this issue – ultimately focusing on adding novelty back into our lives. He noted that “the more I read and the more people I spoke with, the more I began to regard novelty as a kind of existential tonic. Without it, our interest in the world withers and we turn our attention inward, where all neuroses lurk.”

Breaking free from the shackles of routine requires reconnect with aspects of ourselves that have been neglected or abandoned. Like Heid, we can try to “approach my work in new ways” and “meet friends in unfamiliar places” – small acts of rebellion against the monotony that has come to define many of our days.

Heid’s results were immediate and profound. “The colors of my world [were] brighter, the products of my mind less predictable. I feel a bit like a prisoner who jostles the door of his cell and finds it was never locked in the first place.

Inverting our perspectives allowed us to see the insidious nature of unchecked routines and the importance of embracing spontaneity and novelty. By actively seeking out experiences that challenged our habitual patterns, we can reclaim a sense of wonder and curiosity that has been dulled by the relentless pursuit of optimization and productivity.

I’m reminded of the wisdom in Munger’s and Jacobi’s words. By flipping our perspective, we can uncover hidden truths and unlock new possibilities – a invaluable lesson for anyone seeking to break free from the confines of routine and embrace a life of greater richness and fulfillment. And that’s exactly what Heid describes.

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Writing

A Jimmy Breslin for Our Time

The late, great Jimmy Breslin was the embodiment of a classic New York newspaper columnist. He chronicled the gritty underbelly of the city, the backroom deals, and the voices of the overlooked. With his uncompromising style and passion for giving voice to the ordinary men and women of the city, Breslin shined a light on the harsh realities and human stories that those in power often overlooked or tried to brush aside.

Breslin’s columns were marked by his streetwise writing, caustic wit, and deep empathy for the working class. He had a masterful way of cutting through the spin and official narratives to excavate the truth. Whether he was covering brutal crimes, civic upheaval, or clashing with the city’s elite, Breslin’s journalism emanated from spending hours walking the streets, talking to people, and seeing New York through their eyes. Breslin wasn’t an outsider looking in. He understood the city’s soul.

While the technology beat may seem worlds apart from the gritty NYC stories that Breslin staked his career on, we are fortunate to have our own modern-day commentator holding the tech industry’s feet to the fire: the inimitable Kara Swisher.

Like Breslin, Swisher has been entrenched in the tech world since its early days. She knows the players, the rivalries, and the unspoken rules, allowing her to cut through the PR spin. She has cultivated a signature voice – part insightful analyst, part merciless interrogator that the most powerful figures in tech have learned to respect and, sometimes, fear. Her refusal to cozy up to the wealthy and influential is reminiscent of Breslin playing hardball with Tammany Hall bosses and corrupt officials.

Both writers leaven their seriousness with a healthy dose of humor. Breslin’s sardonic wit made his columns even more impactful. Swisher’s sharp barbs and clever turns of phrase keep readers engaged and entertained. Both are very enjoyable to read.

While many in the tech press stay firmly situated in the industry’s vortex of product launches and funding rounds, Swisher is unafraid to step out of the echo chamber. She understands that tech is not just about the latest iPhone or who gets funded, but about the human consequences – both wondrous and troubling – of the technologies reshaping our world.

Swisher’s columns and interviews, whether deconstructing a social media giant’s PR missteps or grilling a tech luminary, are filled with granular insights and skeptical questioning. There is little deference shown to reputations or famous names. Like Breslin’s tenacious reporting, her approach exposes uncomfortable truths that those in power often would prefer remain hidden. Breslin’s New York was a physical landscape, while Swisher navigates the virtual one. But they share a core mission: to shed light on the forces shaping our world, and to give voice to those who might otherwise be unheard.

Crucially, both journalists share a profound sense of empathy that fuels their crusades against injustice and the abuse of power. Swisher’s fierce advocacy for technology workers, consumers, and other often overlooked stakeholders echoes Breslin’s signature move of giving voice to the voiceless. Her commentary is a clarion call for accountability in an industry intoxicated by its own lofty self-perceptions.

While the subjects of their writing were completely different, Jimmy Breslin and Kara Swisher are united in their roles as civic guardians – unwilling to be cowed, determined to upset institutional hypocrisy, and most importantly, upholding the vital responsibility of the free press. In an age of all too often obfuscation and empty corporate platitudes, we are fortunate to have Swisher carrying Breslin’s torch.

This post was stimulated by attending a Library of America webinar earlier this week on the publication of a new volume collecting Breslin’s work: Jimmy Breslin – Essential Writings. The webinar titled Deadline Artist: The Genius of Jimmy Breslin included the editor of this new volume, New York Times writer Dan Barry along with Mike Barnicle and Mike Lucpica – all of whom knew Breslin well. It was wonderful hearing some of their stories about Breslin, his writing and his escapades.

During the webinar, these writers pointed to an article of Breslin’s which they say has become very well known and is taught in journalism schools around the country: “The Gravedigger”. In this essay, taking place on the day of the funeral of John Fitzgerald Kenney at Arlington National Cemetery, Breslin focuses on Clifton Pollard who dug JFK’s grave.

Just prior to this essay, Breslin’s wrote “A Death in Emergency Room One” which takes us inside the emergency room at Dallas’ Parkland Hospital with the physicians attempting to save the president’s life. Both of these essays are quite remarkable to read now some sixty years later. They really illustrate Breslin at his contemplative best.

I just finished reading Burn Book: A Tech Love Story, Kara Swisher’s great new memoir about her life and times as a tech journalist – and so much more. The videos from her book tour are also a delight to watch: especially this one held at the Commonwealth Club in San Francisco with Kara in conversation with Reid Hoffman. Another is this one sponsored by the Washington, DC bookstore Politics and Prose that was moderated by Laurene Powell Jobs.

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Living Travel

Finding Joy in Unexpected Journeys

Travel. The very word conjures images of pristine beaches, awe-inspiring monuments, and bustling foreign markets. But what happens when reality throws a curveball? When your luggage goes rogue, a guidebook steers you wrong, or the weather throws a tantrum?

Good travel, in its purest form, is about so much more than picture-perfect moments and flawless itineraries. It’s about embracing the unexpected, the messy, the delightful chaos that unfolds when you venture outside your comfort zone. It’s about remaining fiercely optimistic, being open to new experiences, and recognizing that the most valuable souvenir you can bring home isn’t a trinket, but a broader perspective.

Open Yourself Up to the Unexpected

Travel bloggers often paint a picture of perfectly curated trips, where every meal is a masterpiece and every sunrise a Kodak moment. But let’s be honest, those moments are sprinkled with a healthy dose of planning, luck, and maybe even a sprinkle of Photoshop.

The real magic happens when you embrace the unexpected detours. Did you get lost on a hike? Maybe you’ll stumble upon a hidden waterfall or a quaint village untouched by tourists. Did your flight get cancelled? Perhaps fate is giving you the chance to explore a new city you hadn’t considered. Serendipity unlocks so many experiences that will provide lasting memories.

Lost in Translation… But Found in Connection

Language barriers can be daunting, but they can also be gateways to rich cultural experiences. Imagine the heartwarming smile of a shopkeeper who patiently helps you mime your way to the perfect souvenir. Or the camaraderie that blooms when you share a laugh over a botched translation with fellow travelers. If you get desperate don’t hesitate to use the translation features now easily in hand on our smart phones.

The beauty lies in the effort to connect, to bridge the gap with gestures, smiles, and rudimentary phrases. These interactions, though initially frustrating, can forge some of the most memorable moments of your trip.

While doing street photography I’ve had my share of turn downs from individuals who really didn’t want to be photographed. But I’ve also enjoyed some beautiful encounters – especially memorable for me are several on the streets of New York City, a place I expected to be much more difficult but where I had wonderful interactions. The streets of Havana provided many similar opportunities – even without a common language.

Embrace the Fanatical Positivity

Travel isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. There will be delays, frustrations, and moments where you just want to crawl back into bed. That’s when the power of a positive attitude shines.

Instead of dwelling on the negatives, channel your inner optimist. Turn a missed train connection into an opportunity to explore a local cafe. View a downpour as a chance to curl up with a good book in a cozy coffee shop.

A positive attitude is contagious. Your smile can brighten someone’s day, and your laughter can diffuse tension. It can even turn a potentially disastrous situation into a funny anecdote to share back home.

The Greatest Souvenir: A Broader Perspective

Travel exposes you to different cultures, customs, and ways of life. You’ll witness traditions that seem strange, cuisines that challenge your palate, and societal norms that differ from your own. Embrace the opportunity to learn and grow.

Challenge your preconceived notions and ask questions. Step outside your bubble and see the world through new eyes. This broader perspective is the most valuable souvenir you can bring back. It will make you a more understanding, compassionate, and well-rounded human being.

Making Memories, Not Moments

Travel isn’t about ticking destinations off a list and collecting flawless Instagram snaps. It’s about creating lasting memories, forging connections, and collecting a kaleidoscope of experiences that enrich your life.

Let go of the pressure for everything to be perfect. Don’t get bogged down by social media comparisons. Focus on immersing yourself in the present moment, on soaking up the atmosphere, and on appreciating the journey, not just the destination.

A Few “Battle-Tested” Tips for the Optimistic Traveler

  • Pack for Flexibility: Don’t overpack, but bring a few versatile pieces that can be easily mixed and matched. This allows you to adapt to unexpected situations, like a sudden change in weather.
  • Embrace Technology, But Disconnect When Needed: Stay connected for translations, maps, and communication. However, don’t be afraid to put your phone away and truly be present in the moment.
  • Learn a Few Basic Phrases: A little effort goes a long way. Knowing how to greet someone, thank them, and ask for directions in the local language can be incredibly helpful. Bonjour!
  • Be a Responsible Traveler: Respect local customs and traditions. Be mindful of your impact on the environment. Leave a positive footprint wherever you go.

The Takeaway: Embrace the Journey

Travel is a transformative experience, and the best journeys are often the ones that don’t go according to plan. It’s about embracing the unexpected, the challenges, and the moments of pure joy. By remaining open-minded, fiercely optimistic, and forever curious, you’ll collect experiences that will enrich your life and broaden your horizons for years to come.

I’m reminded of a walk I took years ago were my mind drifted off thinking about the shoes I was wearing – and all of the places those shoes had taken me: Old Shoes, Talking Shoes

Fueling Your Wanderlust: Inspiration for the Open-Minded Traveler

Here are a few ideas to inspire your next adventure and embrace the “good travel, still good travel” philosophy:

  • The Themed Challenge: Pick a theme and build your trip around it. It could be street food exploration, street photography in a neighborhood you’ve never been, learning a new skill in every city, or volunteering your time with local NGOs. This gives your trip structure while leaving room for serendipitous discoveries.
  • The Local Immersion: Ditch the tourist traps and seek out authentic experiences. Stay in local homestays, take cooking classes with families, and visit lesser-known cultural sites. Avoid the well-known ones.
  • The Slow Travel Movement: Forget the whirlwind tours and embrace the slow travel philosophy. Pick a single location and spend a week or more truly getting to know it. Connect with the locals, delve deeper into the culture, and appreciate the nuances of the place.
  • The Off-the-Beaten-Path Adventure: Venture beyond the usual tourist destinations. Explore hidden gems, quirky towns, and regions often overlooked by mainstream travelers. You’ll discover unique cultures, untouched landscapes, and a sense of adventure unmatched by popular tourist spots.

Remember, travel isn’t about achieving perfection, it’s about embracing the adventure. So, pack your bags, unleash your inner optimist, and get ready to collect a lifetime of stories, not just souvenirs. The world awaits, with all its imperfections and unexpected delights. And travel while you can – it’s a gift that can fade more quickly than you might expect as aging makes travel increasingly difficult.

Bonus Tip: Consider starting a travel journal (physical or digital) to document your experiences, both the good and the unexpected. This allows you to reflect on your journey, capture fleeting moments, and appreciate the growth and perspective you’ve gained along the way. A digital journal also allows you to quickly and easily capture photos along with your thoughts. Highly recommended!

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AI AI: Large Language Models

Learning about Unlearning

Yesterday afternoon I joined a presentation by Mark Russinovich, CTO of Microsoft Azure, hosted by Stanford’s Institute for Human-Centered AI. One of the topics he discussed was “unlearning” – techniques for removing certain information from AI models that may have been inadvertently learned during training.

This struck me as another one of those concepts that when you hear about it makes complete sense – in a “duh, why hadn’t I thought about this before?” way. There have been other techniques used to deal with certain aspects of AI models that need output correction applied but the approach Mark discussed was a new one to me. I look forward to learning more about these unlearning techniques!

He also touched on how inference processing could be split between the initial prompt handling followed by the subsequent token generation work developing the actual answer. This would allow less powerful processors to be used for that second phase of inference while saving the highest performance processors for the heavy lifting workload. Again, a logical idea and one I can see being quite useful in scaling the handling of inference workloads.