The swarmers laugh at themselves and the role swarming plays in their lives. “Cell dancing” comes up. This is the choreographed behavior in which two people who are vaguely in the same area but can’t find each other get on the phone.
There can be a dark side to all this. Swarmers can have difficulty living in the present. They run the risk of never really connecting with the person physically in front of them. They’re always wondering if there isn’t somebody better they should be talking to at the next place. How’s the party? Is it any good? This sucks. Should we move on? Is there any food? Are the girls prettier where you are?
Err, no, I haven’t swarmed lately! “qbullet.smiley”